Episode 186. Success On Your Own Terms Pt. 2

In this powerful continuation of *The Corelink Solution* series, host James Rosseau (Trig) dives deeper into what it really means to define success on your own terms. In Part 1, listeners were challenged to start envisioning success authentically. Now in Part 2, the focus sharpens on measurement—the essential discipline that turns dreams into achievable progress.

As Peter Drucker once said, “What gets measured gets managed.” Trig unpacks how this truth applies to life goals, careers, relationships, and personal growth. Without measurement, he explains, we run the risk of moving through life like people sitting in a hot room who don’t realize the temperature has risen—unaware of change because there are no markers to gauge progress.

Why Measurement Matters

Trig emphasizes that measurement provides clarity in areas where feelings can often distort perception. While emotions are part of any journey, they can cloud judgment. Measurement serves as an objective compass, helping individuals assess where they are, when to pivot, and when to double down. In short, it creates a baseline—a starting point to compare against future progress.

Just like tracking mileage on a road trip, creating benchmarks for success ensures that growth doesn’t go unnoticed. Without this accountability, people risk drifting aimlessly or overestimating their progress.

Four Key Areas to Measure

To help listeners create a meaningful baseline, Trig introduces a practical framework built around four categories, each beginning with the letter “P.” These pillars provide a holistic view of success:

1. Passion & Purpose

This section challenges individuals to assess whether their passion and purpose are clearly defined or still non-existent. Through reflective questions—such as identifying values, strengths, opportunities for growth, and dreams—listeners are encouraged to clarify what drives them. A clear sense of purpose fuels resilience and direction, while lack of clarity can stall growth.

2. People

No one achieves success alone. Trig highlights the vital role of networks, mentors, teammates, and even mentees. A strong community provides guidance, accountability, and opportunities. Questions in this section invite individuals to consider the strength of their contact lists, systems of communication, and even their personal “pitch”—the ability to clearly articulate who they are, what they’re doing, and what they need help with.

3. Planning

Just like hikers prepare their backpacks with essentials before a trek, individuals must plan for their journeys toward success. This includes journaling, goal-setting, and risk assessment. Trig points out the value of journaling not only as a reflective practice but also as a tool for evaluating whether daily activities align with long-term objectives. Planning also requires distinguishing between personal development (soft skills, mental and physical health) and professional development (hard skills and career-specific expertise).

4. Philanthropy

Finally, Trig underscores the importance of giving back. Success isn’t just about reaching personal milestones but about sharing knowledge, mentoring others, and contributing to the community. Teaching what we learn is one of the most effective ways to retain and deepen understanding. In this way, philanthropy becomes both a responsibility and a reinforcement of growth.

A Tool for the Journey

To help listeners put these ideas into action, Trig offers access to a measurement tool derived from his book *Success on Your Own Terms* and its companion workbook. This evolving resource is designed to guide reflection, scoring, and progress checks in each of the four categories. By establishing a baseline now, individuals can revisit their progress later and objectively see how far they’ve come.

The Call to Reflection

One of the strongest takeaways from this episode is the call to slow down and reflect. In a culture driven by speed and instant results, Trig reminds listeners that true success often requires “slow roasting” instead of “microwaving.” Taking time to honestly assess passion, people, planning, and philanthropy builds a stronger foundation for lasting success.

Final Thoughts

Part 2 of *Success on Your Own Terms* challenges listeners not just to dream but to measure. By grounding themselves in a baseline and committing to periodic reflection, they can stay accountable, celebrate milestones, and navigate setbacks with wisdom.

As Trig closes the episode, his message is clear: be informed, be empowered, and be accountable. Success isn’t an accident—it’s a managed journey.

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TIMESTAMPS

0:00 – Welcome and recap of Part 1
1:00 – Why measurement matters: “What gets measured gets managed”
7:30 – The importance of establishing a baseline
11:30 – Feelings vs. facts: how measurement provides clarity
16:00 – Introducing the four areas of measurement
17:00 – Passion & Purpose Inquiry
20:00 – People: networks, mentors, and your personal pitch
23:30 – Planning: journaling, goal setting, and risk awareness
28:30 – Personal vs. professional development
31:00 – Philanthropy: giving back and teaching what you learn
34:00 – Accessing the Success Tool
35:00 – Closing encouragement: be informed, empowered, and accountable